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Doug Pollard is a veteran gay journalist, columnist, commentator, and broadcaster specialising in GLBTI issues, based in Melbourne Australia. He often works with Rob Mitchell of the RJM Trust, "We are separate independent and unaffiliated guerilla campaigners and advocates, and the best of mates: nimble, fast-moving, unconventional and above all aiming to drive rapid change", he says.

"Curing" the Gays: End This Evil Lie Now


It's great to see the Australian media is finally noticing the insidious mental torture being peddled to desperate parents of gay children under the guise of 'therapy' Really Long Link


Yes, this is NOT just a US problem: 'reparative' therapy is practiced here in Australia too. The problem is, it doesn't work. Because it tries to fix something that isn't broken in the first place. There is not one shred of evidence to show that it works.

THE 'COUNSELLING' SCAM
"Reparative therapy", is usually disguised in Australia as 'counselling' to avoid scrutiny and regulation.

But the history of this vicious lie is littered with depression, destruction of families, and deaths. Far from repairing anything, it destroys.

Deep depression is induced by these 'counsellors' by brainwashing their victims into believing they are sinful, perverted and abnormal and need to be "converted" into heterosexuals.

And when they inevitably fail (because what they are attempting is impossible), telling them it is their own fault for not trying hard enough. It can drive a person to suicide.

FAILURE IS GUARANTEED
Let me be clear: it is incontrovertibly proven fact that you cannot remove homosexual desires and replace them with heterosexual ones. You can only suppress them, with lasting psychological damage. The only people who have any 'choice' are those with an underlying bisexual orientation. Anyone who tells you different is a liar.


Time after time after time, so called "ex-gay" star patients have eventually been found out, or have admitted it was all wishful thinking. Many, like Paul Martin and Anthony Venn-Brown here in Australia now actively campaign against this vicious practice.

FAMILIES DESTROYED
It's not just the 'patient' who is crushed. Family members are also damaged:

"reparative therapists not only hurt their clients but they often upend the lives of spouses. These unfortunate individuals marry so-called “ex-gays” who mistakenly think they have been converted – but later find that their “progress” was a mirage brought on by wishful thinking and pressure from their therapist."

"This 'therapy' also encourages clients to blame their parents for allegedly causing their homosexuality, leading to resentment, broken bonds, and the disintegration of previously close families."
[Truth Wins Out http://www.truthwinsout.org/blog/2012/05/25196/]

SHUT THEM DOWN
Parents & Friends of Ex-Gays (PFOX) - a fundamentalist Christian front group set up to counter Parents & Friends of Lesbians & Gays (PFLAG) - helpfully lists the following reparative therapy centres in Australia.

We need to restrict and control this evil, as they are moving to do in California Really Long Link .

We should go further: it is time to make it illegal and close these places down. Parents who subject their children to this torture should be charged with child abuse.

THE BRAINWASHERS

Barnabas House (New South Wales) Jane Dawson; 18 The Avenue, Hurstville NSW 2220

Courage - Australia Chapters
Broadway, Lynn Ryan, Write - PO Box 893 Broadway 2007
Dingley, Fr. Danial Pietrzak, Phone - 03 9551 7579, E-Mail: MELBOURNE@hotmail.com
St. Lucia, Fr. Gregory Jordan, S.J., Phone 07 3878 0638, E-Mail: gfjordan@mailbox.uq.edu.au

Debbie and Alan Hirsch (Victoria; formerly Exodus Central) 011-61-3-699-1536; c/o 412 Dorcas St., South Melbourne, Victoria 3205

Exit Ministries (New South Wales) Tel: (02) 9578-3622 Ian Lind. 011-61-2-698-3622 c/o Christian Life Centre, 188 Young St, Waterloo, Sydney NSW 2017, Australia

Homosexuals Anonymous
HA-Brisbane: 07-3390-4593
HA-Canberra: 02-6291-7792
HA-Perth: 09-367-9420

Liberty Christian Ministries Inc. (New South Wales) Directors: Chris and Truda Keane. PO Box 67, Summer Hill, NSW 2130. Telephone: 011-61-02-9798-4685.

Liberty, Inc. (Queensland) Director: Paul Wegner; Phone: 61 7 3390 4250, Fax: 61 7 3371 4705; P.O Box 2083, Tingalpa, Queensland, 4173, Australia. E-Mail: exodus@itconnect.net.au

Living Waters - Canberra Phone: (02) 6296 1587; c/o Tuggeranong Baptist Church, PO Box 82, Erindale ACT 2903 Web: http://www.geocities.com/lwact E-Mail: lwact@yahoo.com.au

Love in Action (South Australia) Director: Nick Kuiper; Phone: 61 8 8341 7373; GPO Box 115, Adelaide, 5000, Australia E-Mail: billy_2@mail.chariot.net.au

Open Door Community (New South Wales) Tel: 02 6583 8413. Fax: 02 6584 1033. c/o St. Thomas Anglican Church, Port MacQuarie NSW 2444

The Recovery Line PO Box 1321, Fyshwick ACT 2609. Telephone: 011-61-02-6291-7792. E-Mail: recoveryline@altavista.net

Regeneration (formerly listed under Jim Gallagher) Director: Pastor Jim Gallagher; Phone: 011-61-66-243519; Fax: 61 2 6622 4711; PO Box 517, Lismore, NSW, 2480, Australia E-Mail: jimnruth@lis.net.au

Restoration (Queensland) Bruce and Rhonda Sleaford; 76 Jindabyne Circuit, Forest Lake, Q 4077, Australia

Roy and Dawn Ball (Victoria) Phone 011-61-6-251-530. PO Box 222, Wodonga, Albury, Victoria 3689.

Sanctuary (Queensland) Director: Laurie Jean Wilson; Phone: 61 7 5445 4898. Fax: 0754770711; PO Box 942, Buderim, Queensland, 4556, Australia E-Mail: wilsonlj@ozemail.com.au

Spencer Gear (Queensland) Director: Spencer Gear; PO Box 2106, Bundaberg, Queensland, 4670, Australia

Steve Richards (Queensland) 45 Webb St, Logan Lea, Q 4131, Australia.

Turnabout Director: Tim Schewen; Phone/Fax: 61 7 5446 6017; PO Box 227, Marcoocydore, Queensland, 4558, Australia E-Mail: trsabodeportraiture@hotmail.c om

Uniting Churches in Australia
Stephen Richards, Logan Uniting Church, P. O. Box 239, Springwood, Queensland 4127, Australia. Phone: (07) 3290 1277. Fax: (07) 3808 6696.
Work in Progress Director: Dr. John Meteyard; Phone: 61 7 5530 7126; PO Box 358, Mudgeeraba, Queensland, 4213 Australia
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1. June 10th 2012 @ 00:25. Phil Walcott Says:
Queensland is trying to reintroduce this rubbish now that they have a conservative government.

Great article, Doug...keep 'em coming!!!
2. June 10th 2012 @ 00:26. Chrys Stevenson Says:
You should include Jim Wallace from the Australian Christian Lobby - this from a speech he gave for the National Apostolic Church Conference:

"In the following transcript of Wallace’s presentation at the conference, he makes it very clear how he deals with a young gay person who has just come out.

“I’m dealing with a young fellow who’s only in the last couple of weeks has gone and told his parents he’s gay. It has destroyed his family. It has destroyed this fellow’s relationship with Christ. And it’s because this 39 year old seduced a young 18 year old at university in his first year …”

Later in his speech, Wallace elaborates on this relationship:

“… let me tell you that only in the last week I’ve had a conversation with a young fellow I’m mentoring you know, who’s ‘cause I’ve encouraged him. I know that the only way that people can be brought out of homosexuality is through Christ, it’s not by my argument, you know. If you read the books of people who’ve talked about coming out [he means becoming ex-gay], you know, it’s only ever people have said to them, people have tried to argue with them – you can’t – because for a start, the people who’ve called them into it have all the arguments and counter arguments they fill their heads with and so you’ll never beat those down. The only thing that will bring them out of it is a closer relationship with Christ – as Christ reveals to them, you know, that it’s sin.”

Then he goes on to compare homosexuality to kleptomania:

“But what I’d say to you is this. That whatever the struggle, it’s no different really than someone who might be struggling with pornography – and for them it’s a real struggle you know, they just can’t go to the TV without opening it up.

It might be that they’re struggling with something else, you know. Some people are kleptomaniacs and must have a real struggle when they see something they really want and want to grab it. All of these things are sin because of the fallen nature state of our world, you know? "

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3. June 10th 2012 @ 00:37. Doug Pollard Says:
See also Michael Lallo's piece in The Age Really Long Link

The Australian Christian Lobby will be trotting out and evangelical Christian sexologist Patricia Werakoon Really Long Link at their upcoming 'Defining Marriage' shindig in Melbourne June 26th Really Long Link
4. June 10th 2012 @ 00:41. Doug Pollard Says:
I'm cross-eyed with admiration Chrys!! Thank you!!
5. July 26th 2012 @ 14:33. melina Says:
This infuriates me!!!

The mind should be open and free to explore along with a persons true identity

sigh and ugh

Great work sir!!








Keep up the great work sir!!

6. July 26th 2012 @ 19:09. Doug Pollard Says:
You'll be pleased to know that Anthony Venn-Brown of Ambassadors & Bridge Builders International Really Long Link reports that two-thirds of the 'gay cure' operations in Australia have either closed down or gone underground.

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